No surgery!!!

Yesterday I went to the hospital to see an orthopedic surgeon who told me to use my left hand as much as possible from now on, so this morning I thought I’d give typing with two hands a try, even though my arm is still in a sling, of course, and I’m not supposed to move my left shoulder at all.

Yep, yep, yep, this works…for a short post, anyway…

The orthopedist told me that my fracture is borderline for surgery. I’d actually been told the same thing last Monday, so I knew surgery might be in the picture. Aggghhhh!!! For a moment, yesterday, I froze…

When I told her about my smoldering myeloma, though, she agreed that surgery might be risky for me (that is, the risk of developing an infection afterwards), so she said, “ok, no surgery.” The fracture should heal properly on its own. She said she’d do the same if it were her shoulder. Fine with me!

I’m going back to see her in two weeks’ time, and then we’ll have a clearer picture. For now, the good doctor said, I have to think of myself as made of glass (Stefano’s aunt later suggested that, instead of soap, I should wash with the Italian equivalent of Windex, haha, very funny!).

This orthopedist had a good sense of humor, so we actually had a few good laughs, listing things I could do and things that I shouldn’t do with my left arm. She showed me an exercise that I have to begin doing as of today, and I’ll also need physical therapy once the fracture has healed completely.

So far so good.

Oh, speaking of good, a quick aside: it’s soooooo good to be able to type with both hands again! Fantastico!

I wanted to say a few words about the healthcare system here. Last Monday, when our family doctor told me to have an X-ray, Stefano and I decided to go to a private clinic in town. We thought it would be faster than going to the emergency room at Careggi, Florence’s university hospital. In retrospect, we should have skipped the clinic and gone directly to the ER. Reason: the clinic sent us over to the ER anyway, and I had to have my X-rays redone. Sp the clinic was a waste of time. Oh well.

The nurses and the doctors who visited me up at Careggi Hospital were incredibly attentive, and we had quite a few laughs, too (what can I say? I am irresistibly funny…Or rather, I THINK that I’m irresistibly funny…)…In short, my experience in Ortopedia at the ER of Careggi couldn’t have been better.

And all this excellent care, plus all my X-rays (and the CAT scan I had last Monday), cost us NOTHING. Not a cent. That’s how it should be. I couldn’t help but think how much it would have cost me to have all those tests and doctors’ visits in the U.S. Yikes.

I really do love this country…Not just for its ERs, of course! 😉

Anyway, onwards and upwards…The worst is over. I’m playing cards today with my girlfriends. Life is good again.

Fracture!

This will be a quick post because I can type only with one hand. Reason: on Saturday, during a weekend trip with Stefano and friends in Maremma, a lovely area in southern Tuscany, I lost my balance while exploring an archaeological site and fell.

Hard.

On my left shoulder.

Bam!

We didn’t go to the local hospital because nothing seemed to be broken. I was in pain but could move my hand and even my shoulder a bit. I couldn’t lift my arm but we figured it was just because the muscles had taken a hit. We went to  a pharmacy to get a painkiller and a sling for my arm, and that was that.

We kept on sightseeing, a bit more slowly, though. Yes, I was in pain, at times a lot of pain, but didn’t think it was that serious. Yesterday morning, however, since the pain hadn’t lessened, I called our GP who sent me to the hospital for X-rays.

Result: I fractured the upper extremity of my humerus…also a few other minor things, but the fracture to the humerus is the main thing.

My shoulder is in a proper sling, now, and it will take at least a month to heal. I have to rest…no volleyball for a while. 😉

Pain, yes, but otherwise I’m okay. So I’ll rest, watch my TV series, go for my checkups (one next week) and hope that the fracture will heal properly so I don’t have to have surgery, aaaaaagggh.

Anyway, it could have been worse…I could have hit my  head or actually broken a bone or…who knows? Lots of things could have gone wrong with such a fall…so, in the end, not too bad.

I’ll be fine, but no computer for a while….

Lesson learned: be super careful when walking on an archaeological dig!!! Hah!!!!

Marital life

Excerpt from a conversation Stefano and I had a couple of evenings ago…

Margaret: If you could go back in time, would you still marry me?

Stefano:  No.

Margaret (taken aback): Noooo? Why not?

Stefano: I wouldn’t marry anyone who would ask such a dumb question.

Margaret: Ohhhh…(pause)…Well, would you STILL marry me?

Stefano (looking up from his iPad): Of course I would!!!

Phew. 😉 

20 years

20 years ago, on this day, Stefano and I got married. One of the happiest days of my life.

I’ve written wedding anniversary posts before, so I’ll keep this one short…I just want to say how lucky I am to have found such an extraordinary man…brilliant, funny, supportive, loving, wise…the list goes on…

Thank you for all these years, Stefano…and for the ones to come! 🙂

Ti amo.

Buon anniversario!